What sounds or impressions are you making on the people around you? Think about it. Your words, phrases, even your message may soon be forgotten but believe me, good or bad, your melody lingers.
An odd choice of phrase? Not really. The dictionary defines "melody" as a succession of sounds, and what is life other than the combining and blending of a succession of movements and sounds.
Just as a musical composition affects the moods and emotions of people who hear it, so too does the way you live your life.
Think of your life as a blank sheet of manuscript paper.
Only the rhythm is there - it is up to you to create the harmony.
Naturally you will want your composition to be a success, 'a chart buster' even a Symphony - something to be remembered with pleasure.
So where to begin?
YOU MUST BEGIN WITH YOURSELF.
Have the right attitude, enjoy life, - and most importantly, be optimistic about the future.
Be genuinely interested in other people. Make a conscience effort to bring peace and happiness into other people's lives.
Avoid situations that generate excessive ambition, envy, anger and pride. They are all enemies of peace and will play havoc with your harmony.
It has been said that if these emotions or feelings were banished, the world would live in perpetual peace. Well, to banish them from the world is probably aiming a bit high but it shouldn't be too difficult to rid them from your own life.
Develop traits such as tact, diplomacy, compassion perceptiveness & sensitivity. These attributes are invaluable in enhancing not only your own life but the lives of those around you.
Everything you do has an effect on those around you. The way you move, whether you smile or frown. You are capable of making someone's day bright or miserable.
Take time to listen to other people. If there are too many discords & not enough harmony in their lives, encourage them to have a brighter outlook.
Throughout the world most people are striving for peace.
From the family unit seated around the dinner table to world leaders at the conference table, the name of the game is the pursuit of peace.
So, let us all play our part in composing the rhythm of life by consciously choosing peace and harmony in our daily lives to create a harmonious Uni-verse.
周圍的人對你是什么評價?想想自己曾經(jīng)的言辭以及那些我們發(fā)出去就忘了的短信,相信我,無論好壞都是你自己的演奏。
把話說得好聽點?不盡然。"悅耳"這個詞指的是動聽的聲音,把生活中的善行和話語結合起來,才是對悅耳一詞的詮釋。
你在生活中的行為如同交響樂團影響聽眾一樣會影響你周圍的人。
想象你的生命是一張白紙
你生活的曲調就取決于你的行為。
實際上你想讓自己表現(xiàn)得很好。
從哪開始呢?
從自己開始。
樹立正確的心態(tài),熱愛生活--最重要的是對未來保持樂觀的態(tài)度。
對他人要有發(fā)生內心的興趣。拿出自己的愛心給他人帶來平和與快樂。
避免產(chǎn)生野心、嫉妒、憤怒和驕傲的情緒。這些都是破壞你跟他人和諧共處的大敵。據(jù)說如果人類消除了這些情緒,世界就會永遠和平。當然,這種說法實現(xiàn)起來并非易事。但做為個人來講,避免這些情緒應該不會太難。
這樣下去,你會變得越來越機智,越來越善于處理人際關系,越來越理性和感性。這些變化不旦會影響你自己,也會影響你周圍人的生活。
你做的每件事都會在周圍人身上反應出來,包括你做事的方法。是喜笑顏開還是怒氣沖沖?這些都會影響到別人是開心還是難過。
花些時間去傾聽。如果他們的生活中有太多的矛盾和別扭,鼓勵他們用樂觀的態(tài)度去面對。
全世界大多數(shù)人都在為和平而奮斗。無論是一家人圍坐在飯桌前,還是國家級領導人圍坐著會議桌前。他們的目的是一樣的---追求和平。
所以,讓我們每個人拿和平,和諧為基調來演奏我們的生活樂章吧!